RIP Megan Meier

I need you, as my readers, to please, please read this story, it is long, but you will walk away with something very beneficial

 After you’re done, please come back here.

When something upsets me most of the time, I go through two stages, crying like a baby, and then anger with a screaming fury like a banshee.

Hell hath no fury like a MOTHER scorned.

Tina & Ron Meier and family, my heart goes out to you all, you all are very close to me geographically and I felt like I MUST say something in support. Megan Meier did not deserve this kind of treatment.

These pathetic pieces of shit, however, I care not even a pebble of shit for.

How can you as a parent, as a mother, make a FAKE myspace account to coerce a 13 year old girl to talk shit about your daughter and other friends? Because you’re not a parent at all- you’re a pathetic example for a parent, a pathetic excuse for a person, entirely.

 These people knowingly pretended to be a good looking boy who liked Megan, via myspace, when her self esteem and confidence were extremely low, they posted heinous bulletins and sent horrible messages to her once they gained her confidence by being “Josh Evans”, you say “oh…this must be the act of a pre-teen..” Think again my friends — this was the act of PARENTS of the pre-teen.

They claim there is no charge to fit the crime – Kavorkian went to jail for telling, verbally, teaching people how to commit suicide. Why can these people not be put in jail for torture and harassment or wrongful death.

They NEED TO BE PUNISHED SOMEHOW. The child should be kicked out of school because I’m sure she played some sort of significant part in all of this.

NOBODY deserved this. NOBODY. Don’t you get it? Kids who talk shit are just that, it doesn’t matter, they are just kids, they are not mentally or socially developed enough to say “Ok, this is going to tarnish my image or this is not right to say”… Their not even done growing PHYSICALLY, what in the hell makes you people think that this child was mentally grown? I am speaking to those parents, the pathetic pieces of crap who did this to her. Whether or not the girl was disturbed to begin with, you did not need to hand her the proverbial gun.

And how dare you say you don’t “Feel so bad” once you found out she’d attempted suicide in the past. It was clear to the parents that the girl was on the mend from her previous ways, how dare this parent step in and take matters into her own hands.

 I do not hate many people, but it seems like the hatred thats grown inside me for these pathetic leeches is like no other. I am a mother and probably much younger than these parents and even I know that my example is one my daughter will be molded from FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE. Great example to set for your own daughter that it’s ok to harass and tease and torment and manipulative. Way to fuckin’ go.

Another human life… gone at the hands of an immature and heinous parent. How can you wake up and look at yourself everyday knowing the entire United States is rallying for you to be thrown in prison, more the less without seeing Megan’s face in every waking moment of your life. If we do not use these peoples as an example to set for society, we are showing every other drama urchin parent that THIS IS OK.

THIS IS NOT OKAY.  And we as a society need to show that by punishment for the crime. When kids bully other kids in school, they get detention, if its severe enough, suspension and eventually expulsion. We are no different as adults, except we do not answer to a principal or a counselor, we answer to the LAW. There should be a punishment to fit this crime. I urge people to write to Senator Claire McCaskill (I had Wm. Lacy Clay up here but it was not allowing people to write to him!!) WRITE TO CLAIRE MCCASKILL! There is an address on there for letters and a phone number for contact… Fill up their inboxes and mailboxes and voicemails… maybe then will we as parents and supporters and concerned citizens get the attention we deserve in fighting for justice for Megan Meier!

Megan Meier may your soul rest in peace and let your death be a lesson to any parent who thinks earning cool points or feeding their need for drama in their own boring suburban lives — could be deadly.


15 thoughts on “RIP Megan Meier

  1. so you can find the neighbors for Tina and Ron Meier by using, type tinas name in and click view neighbors, i figured out who it was by making one phone call, asking about their yard…Cause Ron is being charged of driving in their yard…..just a thought to search in there i hope they get what the have comming to them, but i cannot say who it was for my own sake…….try it!!!!

  2. i tried looking it up, but there are quite a few residents on that street. strangely, there are not many females, but i’m a bit afraid to call any right now. i think that you should make their names public. the public deserves to know who these despicable people are! if we can find out who the sexual predators are in our neighborhood – and where they live – then this information should be made public as well! they deserve any and all torment they will or have received.

  3. the link you posted for Congressman, William Lacy Clay won’t allow anyone out of his district via zip code to email him. It also states he will not get mail posted from outside his district.

  4. Ms. Drew used the same same exact mode of operation as a child predator enacts in the seduction of a child.

    Drew posed as a member of the opposite sex and spent weeks and weeks luring this girl into a relationship.

    But yet it went further. The adult Drew formed a heated relationship with the 13 year old girl. She worked hard to gain the girl’s confidence. She exploited the girl intimately by posing as a boyfriend. She enacted the same methods child predators use to groom their victims.

    Then the woman emotionally raped this child. She took her supposed love and sexual stimulation and crushed the girl emotionally with them -all while knowing the girl was unstable.

    This adult and her friends calculated the best way to achieve maximum mental distress and then carried out their plan. Even enticed others to join in the destruction of this child.

    There are manslaughter convictions on the books that won based on looser ties to a person’s death than this. Child predators go to jail for following this scenerio.

    Ms. Drew is the clear definition of a child predator. She used the internet to stalk, entice and lure a 13 year old girl into a romantic, sexually sparked, full fledged relationship. She then used that power to inflict Great Mental Harm to this child… A physical rape and mental rape are both as equally destructive to a 13 year old child. Drew knew this (or should have known this) and still proceeded unabated.

    This is so far beyond “Harassment”, this is full fledged exploitation of a child.

    Is the local police of this county out of their minds to think that NO charge will stick?

    Is the local District Attorneys office serious if they don’t think this girl’s rights have been thoroughly trampled by a grown woman?

    Does the DA really expect people to roll over while this woman goes without so much as even a single charge?

    Does even a speeding ticket register a more serious offense than this?


    Last of all, the very worst. Ms. Drew remains defiant and indignant. Claims the girl was already on the edge mentally.

    Ms. Drew denies wrong doing and insists she bears no guilt in her actions.

    She justifies her actions as being “protective of her daughter”… Please tell me how she was protecting someone by mind raping a 13 year old child?

    To add insult to incredible injury…. The Drews file charges against the family that lost this child.

    The Drews, in a final act of ultimate hate, seek to hurt this family who lost a beloved child. She seeks to harm them financially….

    Just as MS. Drew attacked an innocent little girl, Ms. Drew now attacks a grief stricken family – again seeking to harm someone’s very life.

    This woman is evil incarnate

    This woman has county officials protecting her…

    The same county officials who would put ANY other child exploiter in jail.

    It would appear we have a few corrupt city officials. Officials who need to be fired

    Perhaps the county detectives on the case need some scrutiny. Did they really investigate this crime thoroughly? Apparently not.

    There had better be some charges…and some heads better role from this complete mismanagement of law enforcement.

  5. Ironic that the same internet that was used to harass Megan is the tool that is being used to out those responsible & make sure that the story does not die until there is justice for Megan. It is also ironic that the adult behind all of this is the one who made a public record of her role in the first place by pressing charges against Ron Meier over a piece of property. She should have just been relieved that was all Mr. Meier did. Considering the lengths this woman went to over Megan having a mere falling out with her daughter, there is no telling what she would have done had she & Mr. Meier’s roles been reversed. I guess she is now wishing she had “let it rest” along time ago, as she suggested that the Meier’s do (CNN interview) when they confronted her about her heinous behavior.

    One other thing, seems like there are a lot of blogs with Lori, Curt, & Sarah Drews’s info with either implied or outright suggestions to do harm to either they or their property. Please no one do anything illegal to them & be careful not to threaten them over the internet lest you get caught in the same predictament that they are about to experience. Not to mention that any serious damage directed to the Drews would take the spotlight off of their horrible behavior & we definitely don’t want them to in any way become sympathetic. There are no words to describe how awful they acted and continue to act & it makes me FURIOUS. But let’s let karma take care of them – it will be much more fun to watch & no one but them will be to blame!

  6. For those of you who feel powerless against this injustice, please read. You are not powerless.. Public pressure CAN result in the proper handling of this case as it has many times before.


    About a month ago, a child nearly drowned in the family swimming pool. The child was pulled inside the house to try to recessitate the child.

    A cop who showed up after paramedics arrived, ran into the house and slipped on the wet floor. A floor wet, because the child was soaking wet.

    After the cop received full pay for her workman’s comp claim…and after all of the cops medical bills were paid….this cop proceeded to sue the family of the boy who is now a vegitable.

    Public outrage and anger lead to the cop’s suspension from the force…and the cop was finally forced to repeal her case.

    Story Here:

    Had this story been covered up and hidden, this cop would have gone forward and sued this grieving family while their child was still in intensive care.

    See… you do have a voice… public pressure can give a victim a small amount of justice.

    Megan Meier deserves at least a little justice in all this – not just some new law named after her.

    If you feel the adult child predator in this case should bear some kind of responsibility to her part in this, then make sure your voice is heard.

    Ms Drew could set this up on your child next…

    Even if you watch your child like a hawk….remember the following.

    Your child’s friends have computers.

    Your child’s school has computers…

    Libraries have computers…

    If your child desperately desires to get to a computer, they will find one eventually…

    And Ms. Drew, and others like her are waiting.

    Justice deserves to prevail here…and so far it has NOT!

    Danny Vice

  7. I just read this story in the LA Times. This woman is an evil BITCH, Ms Lori Drew, how do you feel being responsible for Megans death……and you are responsible. Now go clean up the enviroment. And hang yourself……..

  8. As details about Lori Drew’s 6 week cyber-voyeur techniques emerged, the more I am convinced that outing this kind of behavior is not only right, but essential. Essential? Really?

    It is becoming clearer everyday that Lori Drew employed many of the same grooming techniques that child predators utilize to charm their way into gaining a child’s trust. The most significant key here is that Lori Drew spent approximately 6 full weeks baiting Megan into this trust by posing as a “cute” boy that Megan would be attracted to.

    Right here, Drew utilizes the sexual stimulation that exists in male/female pair bonding in order to manipulate the 13 year old girl.

    Lori Drew groomed her victim like many child predators do, enticing her with flirtation, mild sexual conversation and playing on Megan’s weakness. Lori knew that Megan had a low self esteem and was treated for depression.

    There are uncanny parallels between the typical Child Predator MOA and those utilized by Lori Drew to control and manipulate Megan in the relationship Lori developed with her.

    Outing Child Predators has been public policy in most states and is usually upheld under the premise that the public has a right to reasonably protect itself from criminal behavior where it exists. Families with children have a right to know when those who might prey upon their child, live nearby. Public policy dictates that if a child is exposed to potential harm from predatory activity, then parents should at least have the opportunity to be aware such harm may exist.

    But what if a child predator confesses to a crime, but is never convicted? Does the potential for risk exist despite the legal process?

    Thus far, details in the case have been heavily supported by Lori Drew’s own admissions, police records and interviews. The amount of speculation in this case has been minimal, and the majority of public outrage has largely focused on the facts presented.

    The Missouri Public Records Act of 1961 was enacted partially to inform the public of persons, events, proceedings and reports that may effect the public directly. The records (such as the charges Lori Drew filed against the Meier family), were the principal documents used to tie Lori Drew to her abhorrent acts. By filing this police report, Lori in effect put herself into the spot light. The Blogging community simply connected the dots and reported the results.

    The Vice enjoys the sharp irony that Lori Drew’s own actions, activities and zeal to hurt someone eventually lead to her own uncovering. As I see it, public policy laws and Lori Drew’s own manipulations of those laws worked to her undoing. The Vice is appreciative for Lori Drew’s assistance in these efforts.

    Danny Vice

  9. On Wednesday, October 21st, city officials enacted an ordinance designed to address the public outcry for justice in the Megan Meier tragedy. The six member Board of Aldermen made Internet harassment a misdemeanor, punishable by up to a $500 fine and 90 days in jail.

    Does this new law provide any justice for Megan? Does this law provide equitable relief for a future victim or actually weaken the current law?

    I reject the premise of this new law and believe it completely misses the mark. The reasoning behind this opinion is that city officials have consistently treated this case as an Internet harassment case instead of a child welfare/exploitation case.

    Classifying this case a harassment issue completely fails to address the most serious aspects of the methods Lori Drew employed to lead this youth to her demise. The Vice disagrees that harassment was even a factor in this case until just a couple of days before Megan’s death.

    Considering this case a harassment issue is incorrect because during the 5 weeks Lori Drew baited and groomed her victim, the attention was NOT unwanted attention. It was not harassment at all. It was invited attention. Megan participated in the conversations willingly because she was lured, manipulated and exploited without her knowledge.

    This law willfully sets a precedent that future child exploiters and predators can use to reclassify their cases to harassment issues. In effect, the law enacted to give Megan justice, may make her even more vulnerable. So long as the child victim doesn’t tell the predator to stop, even a harassment charge may not stick with the right circumstances and a good defender.

    Every aspect of this case follows the same procedural requirement used to convict a Child Predator. A child was manipulated by an adult. A child was engaged in sexually explicit conversation (as acknowledged by Lori Drew herself). An adult imposed her will on a child by misleading her, using a profile designed to sexually or intimately attract the 13 year old Megan.

    Lori then utilized the power she had gained over this child to cause significant distress and endangerment to that child. She even stipulated to many of these activities in the police report she filed shortly after Megan’s death.

    We can go on and on here, but the parallels between this case and many other child predator cases that are successfully prosecuted bear striking similarities.

    Child Predator laws do not require much more than simply proving that an adult has engaged a minor in sexually explicit conversation. Lori Drew has already stipulated that her conversations with Megan were sometimes sexual for a child Megan’s age.

    City officials who continue to ignore this viable, documented admission and continue to address this issue as harassment are intentionally burying their heads in the sand, when the solution is staring them right in the face. Why?

    On June 5th, 2006, Governor Matt Blunt signed into law stiff penalties for convicted sex offenders. The Vice believes that officials continually reject a child predator classification of this case in order to keep the penalty of this offense out of this harsher realm.

    Opponents of this law are active in defeating this law not by changing it, but by disqualifying cases like Megan’s from ever being heard.

    There are several other child exploitation laws on the books. To date, none of them have even been considered by City, State and Federal officials in this case. I’m outraged that a motion was never even filed, so that the case could at least be argued before a judge or jury.

    Those satisfied with this response out of Missouri officials need to think through the effect this law will truly have. It quite honestly has the potential to directly undermine Jessica’s law. It quiet easily gives prosecutors a way out of prosecuting child endangerment and child predator cases in the future.

    Beware the wolf in sheep’s clothing here.

    Danny Vice

  10. Lori Drew is a psychopath. That part is clear.

    But more disturbing than that are the actions of authorities: If it had been an adult MALE that “carried on” in a sexually explicit way with a 13 year old girl, even if it WERE for the purposes of revenge for his teen daughter, he’d be locked up as a pedophile.

    Second, there are al-READY laws on the books that cover this type of harassment. For chrissake: just implement them!

    What is particularly chilling to me, is that Lori Drew knew that the victim was known to be suicidal in the past. That means that her statement to her that the “world would be better off without you” or whatever it was… is even MORE chilling: it means she was TRYING to steer this girl to suicide. It means she had a desire to push it in that direction, and did so.

    Reminds me of Charles Manson. He never “technically” put his own hands upon his victims either, but he “made it happen” by manipulating people, I mean that’s the premise upon which he was convicted: that he had INCITED it.

    Same thing here. Lori Drew incited this suicide and should be just as responsible as Manson was when he incited those murders—and she should also be treated just like any other adult who engages in online relationships of a sexual nature with under-aged children.

  11. While the Megan Meier case seems outrageous and unique, it isn’t unique. Hundreds of cases of egregious and heinous acts go on every day with the same excuses out of our lawmakers.

    One such other case….The case of Nikki Catsouras, is a classic example of disgusting, hateful activity against innocent victims, while our lawmakers excuse themselves from enacting laws to prevent this.

    The excuse lawmakers use to let themselves off the hook stem from the growth of the Internet and how fast it’s changing. This is a sham.

    Chat rooms, message boards, instant messengers and email have been in existence for far over a decade now. While the software used to transmit messages changes slightly, the basic essence of using the Internet to send a message is largely the same. Is a decade or two long enough to establish some basic decency laws in regards to Internet usage?

    I’ve posted the Nikki Catsouras story along with many details about the Megan Meier case so the inactivity out of our lawmakers towards these types of cases can be clearly seen.

    Those who are interested in learning about cases like Megan’s and Nikki’s case are encouraged to drop by and comment on them if you like. I have a couple of polls set up as well. Danny Vice would like to hear your point of view.

    Public awareness of the problem and discussions about possible solutions are the best way to pressure elected officials into action instead of excuse making.

    I invite you to come by and share your opinion.

    Danny Vice

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